Creating a Parenting Plan involves detailing arrangements for custody, visitation, and responsibilities regarding the upbringing of children after separation or divorce.  Starting the process of customizing a parenting plan to your children and situation is among the most important, if not THE most important things you will do in your divorce prep.   A well thought out and detailed plan, that both sides contributed to, will help you (and your ex) navigate the challenging years ahead as you co-parent unmarried.  Once finalized, this is your operation manual when it comes to parenting post-divorce.   It is your guide through rough waters.   If both parents allow for the details, you will greatly minimize conflict and the need for interaction.   This is the ultimate putting the kids first document!